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Stories of strange adoptions when adults played with children like toys
Stories of strange adoptions when adults played with children like toys
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Without a doubt, a person who decided to take a child of someone else's blood into the upbringing and raised him with all possible love is worthy of respect. But some cases of raising other people's children cause confusion or rage. In such stories, adults seem to be playing children as living toys. Here are just two amazing examples.

Thomas Day's two brides

In eighteenth century Britain there was a great idealist named Thomas Day. Contrary to ideas about how gentlemen should look, he rejected powder and wigs and exalted naturalness (he washed his hair, for example, only in natural reservoirs). While studying at Oxford - and, apparently, having learned a lot there - Day considered it unnecessary to attend and pass exams, so in the end he flew out of the university without a diploma. Thomas consistently opposed slavery, for the softening of social mores, helped the poor and preached harmony with nature. However, one of the stories with his participation cannot be called either humane or progressive.

In his twenties, Day realized that he would never find a suitable bride: he needed a person who was far from the ideals of raising the young ladies of his time. Not too shy, not afraid to speak directly, not cutesy - but well-read, capable of deep thoughts, and, of course, progressive. Day decided to raise such a bride for himself and took two girls, eleven and twelve years old, under his wing. Naturally, he was not going to marry both of them. Rather, he wanted the future bride - whichever of the girls she became - had the company of a peer, who would not lead her astray with the usual for girls of that time cunning.

Jean-Marc Nattier. Portrait of a girl

At that time it was not difficult to take an orphan as a pupil. The trustees were worried about only two aspects of the treatment of the child: the first - not to defile or rape, the second - to teach a craft that in the future can feed the girl, and take care of the dowry. Day also promised that he would either marry one of the two girls, or find her a worthy husband, and set about raising superbrides.

The girls' names were Anna and Dorkas. Thomas renamed them in the antique spirit - Sabrina and Lucretius. So that no one could confuse the girls with conversations, Day took them to France - they did not know French. Thomas taught girls, basically, three things - literacy, contempt for the attitudes of society and fortitude. The methods he resorted to to achieve the latter quality would shock modern people. So, during one of the "exercises" the girls miraculously did not drown. Lucretia's nerves seemed to be quickly shattered and Day, with contempt for her tearfulness, gave her as an apprentice to a London milliner. The girl was lucky: she later successfully married the owner of the manufactory, also thanks to the dowry given to her by Thomas - and the manners that Lucrezia adopted from the milliner's wealthy clients.

Sabrina was tortured for quite some time. She constantly disappointed her teacher. She squealed in pain when molten wax was dripped onto her hand, then she dodged when a pistol was fired into her skirt (fortunately, Day was smart enough to shoot blanks anyway). At the age of fourteen, for reasons of decency, Thomas handed her over to the boarding school, where he constantly visited to read her a sermon or two. Naturally, this did not lead to the wedding.Sabrina chose another man - Day's friend and namesake, Thomas Bicknell. And Day married much, much later, after several unsuccessful attempts at courting grown-up brides. And, by the way, he wrote a children's book, which has become a classic of English children's literature for a long time.

The parenting process from Thomas Day

Introduction to civilization

The famous explorer-polar explorer Roald Amundsen in one of his travels heard the sad story of the Chukchi named Kagot. He was widowed, could not take care of his little daughter due to employment and was forced to give her to relatives. But the relatives were now starving, and Kagot was very afraid for his daughter. Kagot at that moment worked with Amundsen and asked for a week off to pick up the child. He brought a girl wrapped in an open skin. When the child was swaddled, the spectacle, according to Amundsen, opened up a terrible one.

About a five-year-old girl looked like a living skeleton. Her hair was matted, her head was infested with parasites, her skin was covered with ulcers. The polar explorers immediately launched a rescue operation. The girl was bathed and the wounds were treated with tar, her hair was cut and the remains were thoroughly cleaned of parasites. They immediately gave her some food and began to make clothes - except for the skin in which the baby was brought by the father, she had nothing. Her name was, by the way, Ainana, but Roald gave her a new name - Kakonita.

As a result, Amundsen begged to give the little girl to him for upbringing. And then, in the same way, he persuaded the Australian, whom he met along the way, to give him a daughter from a Chukchi woman, a girl of nine years old, promising to give her a good education. In his memoirs, he writes that he took the older girl so that the younger one would have a girlfriend. Until now, biographies say that Amundsen adopted them, but it's not that simple.

Roald Amundsen with the girls taken away from Chukotka

For some time, the traveler traveled everywhere with the girls, showed them New York and willingly posed with the pupils for photographs. But a few years later, unexpectedly for everyone, Amundsen sent the girls back to the shore of the Bering Strait, to Soviet Chukotka. And the father of one of them, the Australian Carpendale - both. It is not known why Ainan-Kakonit was not handed over to her father - maybe it remained difficult to find him or the girl was already too used to the European way of life - but in the end she had to raise the Carpendale family.

A few years later, a family with girls on kayaks crossed the Bering Strait to escape from the USSR to the USA. Everything was fine with them and their descendants, but it is still unclear why their "adoptive father" suddenly decided to just leave and send them to the harsh land, from which they had long lost the habit.

Roald Amundsen and girls

Fortunately, there are plenty of inspiring stories: 5 famous stepfathers who helped adopted children to succeed and became real fathers for them.

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