Dmitry Krylov and Tatyana Barinova: Guest marriage as a guarantee of a happy family life

2024 Author: Richard Flannagan | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-15 23:55

The author and presenter of "Unlucky Notes" Dmitry Krylov does not speak foreign languages, but at the same time has traveled half the world, sharing with the audience his impressions and emotions from travel. The show became not only his brainchild and way of life, it really changed his fate. Tatyana Barinova was so fascinated by the host of "Unlucky Notes" that she decided to find him at all costs. Since then, 20 years have passed, they have long become husband and wife, however, they have a rather peculiar idea of living together.

The oddities of love

Dmitry Krylov was married three times before meeting with Tatyana Barinova. He admits that three unsuccessful marriages are only his fault. His ex-wives were wonderful people, and he lacked the wisdom and patience to stay in touch. Each time, the break occurred solely on his initiative. He never considered himself a macho and did not at all understand what women find in him.

Tatyana Barinova accidentally saw his "Unlucky Notes" and froze for a long time in front of the TV screen. The voice of the presenter, his manner of communication simply mesmerized her. Even then, she made the decision to definitely get to know this man.

And then she saw him in a park in the city center. He was accompanied by guards, and left in a luxurious car. The desire to get to know Dmitry Krylov better after the meeting only intensified. And Tatiana took decisive action.

Dmitry Dmitrievich at that time was not like a guard, he did not even have his own car. And I haven't been to that park either. His life flowed at an incredible pace: shooting, editing, filming.

He came to this control room for the first time since he worked on television and was editing his next program when the phone rang. The girl called him and was very happy when she heard a familiar voice. She confusedly explained that she was a fan of his program. And she expressed hope for a personal acquaintance.

Dmitry Krylov did not postpone the matter indefinitely and made an appointment with the stranger. Seeing the TV presenter up close, Tatyana understood immediately: there, in the park, there was a completely different person. Dmitry and Tatiana began to meet occasionally, but their communication developed exclusively in a friendly manner. But gradually they both realized how comfortable their communication is, how great their interest in each other. The meetings became more and more romantic, and later Dmitry made an offer to Tatyana.

Guest marriage

They signed, but each continued to live in his apartment. He had a tiny apartment not far from Ostankino, hers - in Novogireevo. They met twice a week, on other days they just called up often. Both of them were quite comfortable living in a guest marriage.

They did not have time to get tired of each other, and each date automatically turned into a holiday. Dmitry Krylov believed that their apartments were too small for a family, and for the normal coexistence of people, a large living space was needed.

Features of a happy life

Then Dmitry built a house. But when the question arose about living in the same territory, Tatyana was seriously scared. She was very afraid that they would not be able to get along, and she would lose her husband once and for all.

But everything turned out to be much simpler. Dmitry and Tatiana decided that they will have separate bedrooms, which make it possible, if desired, to protect themselves from any contact with others. Krylov believes: only the presence of personal space and the possibility of periodic seclusion can make a marriage happy.

Dmitry and Tatiana's twenty years of experience in family relations confirms this theory. Tatiana has long been a colleague of Dmitry, she is the editor of "Unlucky Notes", so they are constantly together: at home, at work, on travel. But in hotels, the spouses stay in different rooms, resting from each other.

Tatiana admits that Dmitry is like two people in one. With the first Dima, everything is easy: he is kind, gentle, flexible. But with the second, everything is complicated. The second almost never takes steps forward, and in quarrels, Tatiana is the first to reconcile. In this case, a quarrel can develop into mutual silence for several weeks. If the spouses are not in a quarrel, they can talk for hours, enjoying the conversation.

When the leader is asked what he would like to change in his life, he replies: he would have only one woman in his life. And here, without any clarification, it is clear who he has in mind. The only thing that Dmitry Krylov and Tatyana Barinova regret is the absence of a joint child. Dmitry has a son Mitya from his third marriage and Tatiana has a son Dmitry from his first marriage. Tatiana's son works with his parents, being the operator of "Unlucky Notes", the host's son is engaged in design.

The secret of their long-term marriage lies not only in great mutual love, but also in respecting the boundaries of each other's personal space.

Dmitry Krylov believes that personal space for each family member is simply necessary for family well-being. But one of the reasons for the longevity of his own marriage calls a bad memory.