5 star widows who, even after years, could not come to terms with their bitter loss

2024 Author: Richard Flannagan | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-15 23:55

It is very difficult to start life anew when the world seems to collapse with the departure of a loved one. The habitual way of life suddenly changes, and those around them express condolences and talk about the healing properties of time. How did the fate of the widows of celebrities develop, could time heal the pain of loss, and how did they find reassurance?

Lilia Bernes-Bodrova

They met at the school where the daughter of Bernes and the son of Bodrova studied. At the time of their first meeting, Mark Naumovich was a widower and raised his daughter Natasha himself, and besides, he was going through not the best period of his work. Lilia Mikhailovna was married, bursting at all the seams due to her husband's betrayal and his desire to lead a fairly free lifestyle.

For some reason, the singer immediately decided: Lily is his swan song, next to her he will come to life, start writing, singing, creating again. As a result, it all happened.

For nine years, they almost never parted. He did everything for Lilia to work with him, only she always announced his appearance on the stage. And at home she was constantly doing something: cleaning, cooking, doing repairs, rubbing the dishes. They were not only husband and wife, they were true friends. And they tied their true feelings.

When he was gone, her life was over. The whole world collapsed. She had to learn everything. Become 16-year-old children immediately mom and dad, get a driver's license, find out where the shops are, and how much bread costs. Under Mark Naumovich, she did not know any of this and did not know how. Lilia Mikhailovna disassembled her husband's archive, published a book about him, published CDs with his songs. But she could not get married.

Julia Romashina

She played an angel in "Etudes about Vrubel", and during the break she wandered backstage in this role. Seeing a sad man, she sympathized with him, and when she found out that he was hungry, she took him to where he could have a snack. And after Anatoly Romashin stubbornly tried to conquer it. He was so gallant, gentle and caring that it was absolutely impossible to resist his courtship. He considered love to be a form of utmost attention to the other. She became his wife and always felt herself the most important in his life. He was 40 years older than her and wiser for a lifetime.

Anatoly and Yulia Romashin lived together for 12 years. They were happy and could turn any conflict into a joke. They did not share responsibilities, did not take offense at trifles, but simply took care of each other.

Anatoly died by an absurd accident. At the dacha, he tried to cut down an old pine tree, did not calculate the trajectory of its fall and the pine fell right on him.

It seemed that after his death nothing would happen. She was given strength to live by their son, who at the time of his father's death was only 3 years old. And friends of Anatoly Romashin, who considered it their duty to help his widow and baby. Together they brought her back to life. She even got married a second time. True, her family life in her second marriage did not work out.

Elena Sanaeva

Elena Sanaeva and Rolan Bykov met on the set of the film "Docker". He was a famous artist, and also a womanizer and heartthrob. Until I meet her. As soon as he saw Elena - fragile, graceful, on thin legs, he fell in love. Forever and ever. He proposed to her a year after they met, but officially they became husband and wife only 13 years later.

From the outside it might seem that their family is perfect. But there were periods in their lives when Rolan Bykov was not allowed to act and he tried to fight depression with alcohol. Elena then pulled him out of all the troubles.

They went through a lot together, and Elena thought that after so many trials, life was just beginning. But a terrible illness in 1998 took her loved one away from her. Elena Vsevolodovna did not want and could not recognize herself as a widow. But he bequeathed to her to finish his work - to disassemble, organize and put in order his huge archive.

In addition, Elena Vsevolodovna continues to act in films. She did not look for personal happiness after his departure, because she knew that after Bykov they would not marry.

Tatiana Ukharova

Tatyana Ukharova and Georgy Burkov created their family in spite of everyone and everything. Their parents did not understand them and did not approve of their marriage at all. They had no housing or material support, but they were happy that they had each other.

Over time, material wealth appeared, fame came, reconciliation with parents took place, their daughter Masha was also growing up. They always had enough of each other's company, so they were not at all burdened by their lack of friends. Later Georgy Burkov met Vasily Shukshin. With him, they were close in spirit, they had common interests and just amazing mutual understanding. For Burkov, the departure of a friend was a tragedy, and he began to do everything to perpetuate his memory. Tatyana, as always, actively supported her husband in everything: she read, listened, criticized, approved.

She always felt the state of her husband, and on July 17, 1990, she left for the country. After a broken leg, a blood clot came off and after 2 days he died in the hospital.

10 years after his death, she lived only with work and memories. And after that, a man appeared in the life of Tatyana Ukharova, who had loved her since school. She was able to start all over again, but she still keeps memories of a quarter of a century of happiness with Georgy Burkov.

Svetlana Bodrova

They flew to Cuba together, Svetlana Mikhailova - to have a rest, Sergei Bodrov - to cover the youth festival. They talked in Hemingway's house, and the whole world narrowed down to the size of a space where only the two of them could fit. They could not stop talking and seemed to each other as twins separated in deep childhood.

In July 1997 they had a daughter, on August 27, 2002 - a son. Two weeks after the birth of the heir, Sergei flew to Ossetia to shoot the film The Messenger. On September 20, 2002, a glacier descended in the Karmadon Gorge, killing nearly 150 people. Sergei Bodrov is still missing.

Svetlana flew to Ossetia in search of him every Saturday. And I could not believe that he was no longer there. She rang all the bells and asked for help from everyone who could help her. The search did not bring any results; they were officially ended in 2004.

Svetlana Bordova is raising a daughter and a son, mentally imagining how proud Seryozha would be of their success. Svetlana rejoices at the achievements of her daughter, who became a student at VGIK without any patronage, is surprised at the external and internal similarity of her son with his father. And she has been unable to accept the loss for 15 years now. Reading articles about her relationship with someone, she only grins bitterly: there is no place in her heart for others, Sergei Bodrov became her last man.

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