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Video: Lyudmila Arinina: And at 60 you can find your happiness
2024 Author: Richard Flannagan | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-15 23:55
Popularity came to Lyudmila Arinina already in adulthood, after filming the film "For the rest of my life", although she had previously acted in films. After playing the role of Yulia Dmitrievna's surgical sister, the viewer began to think that the actress was lonely and unhappy in life. However, Lyudmila Mikhailovna never suffered from loneliness, knowing how to be happy even when life circumstances did not contribute to this at all.
Happy love
She was born in 1926 in the Volga region, from where her parents fled, fleeing hunger, to Tashkent. The family survived the war there. Young Lyudochka, helping to take care of the wounded in the hospital, out of pity, almost married a young soldier who had lost his leg.
In total, Lyudmila Arinina had three husbands. She prefers to remain silent about the first. It is only known that she lived with him in marriage for about 10 years. But real feelings, according to the actress, she experienced in marriage with director Nikolai Mokin.
They met at the Chelyabinsk Theater, where they both served. Nikolai Alexandrovich was short, wore glasses and was not particularly handsome. But he was smart, talented and unusually charming. Women loved Mokin, but he chose Lyudmila Arinina. The relationship between them developed very quickly, soon the actress and the director became spouses.
And everything would be fine if it were not for Nikolai Aleksandrovich's addiction to alcohol. He started drinking during the war, after being ordered to shoot a man-switchman, who did not have time to transfer the train to the desired path in time.
After that, Nikolai Mokin could not calm down for a long time, and his comrades offered him to drink the required front-line one hundred grams. From the war he returned completely addicted to alcohol and, no matter how hard he tried, he could not get rid of the addiction.
But Lyudmila Arinina never complained. She was really very happy next to her beloved man. He showed her a completely different life, introduced her to outstanding artists, including Bulat Shalvovich Okudzhava.
Nikolai Aleksandrovich taught her to distinguish the main from the secondary. When she tried to tell her husband about the backstage life of the theater, he gently stopped the actress. In his opinion, one should not dissipate one's strength and attention on the intrigues and assessments of other people. Better to spend them on learning something new.
She never thought about leaving her husband, considering herself a happy person. She looked after her husband during his drinking binges, suffered from his pain and really wanted to help him heal. Lyudmila Mikhailovna was very fond of Nikolai Alexandrovich. Even when she lost heart, she did not show her husband how exhausted she was from his constant drinking. They lived together for 26 years. Lyudmila Arinina fought to the very end, until death took her loved one away from her in 1984.
Late love
After the death of her husband, Lyudmila Mikhailovna did not even think about her personal life. She had a favorite job, and her mother, who had been seriously ill for several years, required constant attention and care.
The actress did not take the arrival of a neighbor who offered to marry Lyudmila Mikhailovna seriously. But she agreed to go to a dinner party on May 9, because the alleged gentleman turned out to be the namesake of her departed husband. Nikolai Aleksandrovich Semyonov, a retired lieutenant colonel, completely disappointed her. He was gloomy and laconic, quoted Nietzsche and did not seem to even try to impress the woman.
Later he called and invited the actress to go for a walk together. She agreed again. Outside prying eyes, communication developed much easier. Nikolai Alexandrovich slowly and thoroughly talked about himself, about the many years of caring for his deceased wife, bedridden due to oncology.
After that, he began to visit Lyudmila Mikhailovna, helped her take care of her mother, was very caring and helpful. Gradually, the relationship of two already elderly people moved from friendly to romantic. In 1989, Lyudmila Arinina and Nikolai Semyonov became husband and wife. According to the actress, feelings become different with age. You appreciate every day spent together, every moment of happiness. She often says: God sent her a third husband, he just gave it through the window as a gift. With him, she again feels like a real woman, feeling constant care and protection.
Happiness in every moment
She is used to living light and joyful. No life circumstances can make her complain and complain about life. She has enough of everything: pension, audience attention, love. She does not regret the absence of children, considering it a cost of the profession, she simply had no time to think about motherhood.
She loves stargazing and fishing, wants to learn everything about UFOs and learn English. She is still interested in life.
Unlike Lyudmila Arinina, she considered herself doomed to loneliness, and her talent was a curse.
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